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Hackers have been bedeviling me since January 2020. I wish the politicians who run the state and federal government cared about the people of the United States.
I was in Eastern and Southern Oregon walking through small, rural towns and on scenic trails to raise awareness about abuse when the news came about an abusive priest, Fr. Angel Armando Perez, in Woodburn, Oregon. The abuse was very recent and the child reported it, and his family supported him, and the police supported him, and the priest was arrested. The family support and the arrest frequently did not happen in the past. We’ve made progress, real progress. The abuse happened, but at least most of the response to the abuse was appropriate. I could not comment on what had happened when I was walking through towns and on trails in the distant parts of Oregon. My internet access was intermittent, and I had my two teenagers to care for and a schedule to keep, and the two teenagers didn’t want to share the computer with me. When I returned home to Portland, I read Abuse Tracker and saw Randy Ellison's blog on the case. Randy...
Background Information: Louis Bauschard: A Life Dedicated to Breaking the Cycle of Abuse Louise Baushcard started her adult life as a stay at home mother before going back to school during the flowering of the feminist movement in the 1960s and 70s. She studied Social Work with an emphasis on Women’s Studies. Her studies and her mentors inspired her to open a Women’s Self Help Center in St. Louis, Missouri, in May 1976, to bring women together and empower them to create positive changes in their lives -- a noble goal that would soon be subsumed by specific problems of an overwhelming nature. Within a short time, phone calls came in to the Center seeking help for physical abuse and sexual abuse, and the mission of the center transformed to that of a hotline for domestic violence and child sex abuse survivors. The problem of abuse, that has surely always been with us, was just coming out into the open in the 1970s. Much secrecy, guilt and shame surrounds ...
Author's note: I wrote this blog in 2018. While I think mandating parenting coordinators and therapists to work with high-conflict divorced families, this only works if the families have enough money to pay for therapists and parenting coordinators. Most don't, so I think we should have mental health class mandates instead, while allowing high-income parents the option of working with private therapists and parenting coordinators. People partnered in marriage sometimes separate and divorce because the thrill is gone. Sometimes they separate and divorce because they are in conflict. Sometimes, both partners behave badly. When partners are co-parents, their conflict hurts not only each other but also their children. Fortunately, 75 percent of separating co-parents reduce conflict within two years after divorce and need no intervention. The other 25 percent continue their conflict for a long time, sometimes indefinitely. Four to fifteen percent engage in ...
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