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Lydia: 80, Running and Baring Her Childhood Sex Abuse Story

Lydia Wakefield Hubbard lives at the Marshall Manor in NW Portland, but she is eager to travel and to speak.   She is only 80 years old after all and has an important message to share. Her message is that if we don’t talk about abuse, it continues.  If we don’t talk about abuse, we can’t heal.   Lydia was chronically sexually abused for by her father.  He began abusing her at age four  by taking her for a drive in his car.  He told her to never tell anyone what happened.  The next day she experienced pain and told her mother that she hurt in her “privates”.  Her mother examined her and called for help.  Her father blamed a distant relative.  The police came and started searching for the accused family member.  No one asked Lydia who had abused her, and she did not tell because her father told her not to.   Her father also abused the girl hired to help her mother around the house, but another victim did not stop Lyd...